I need to find someone like me.
Clarification: Finding someone LIKE me does NOT mean I want to find someone like me so I can totally make out with them. I mean, I’m not even talking about girls, necessarily. I want to find someone who is “like” me so I can see what they’re doing with their life.
Someone who is like me would comprise of:
Someone who has crossed, or hasn’t crossed, the same boundaries I have, or haven’t. Substance-wise, relationship-wise, emotion-wise.
Tied to the first point, someone who is neutral in many respects. I don’t become super depressed, nor do I become super happy.
Someone who takes life easily. Someone who isn’t swayed by basically any events – simply goes through them.
Someone who’s been through the same family situation as I have. Constant moving, and large relationship differences between parents.
Someone who’s interested in the same things I am. Internet, hardware, BEMANI, writing, languages, my kinds of music, the whole shebang. You know, my LJ interests basically.
Someone who has some of the same talents as I do. Musically, artistically. They’d have the same viewpoint about their talents as I do.
Someone who strives to be social, although tends to be introverted. It’s not that they can’t thrive in a social environment, it’s that they often choose not to.
Someone who has the same thoughts as I do. Someone who’d find it interesting to meet someone like them. Someone existential, atheist, due to the same reasons I am.
This is not because I want to be best buds with them. Indeed, I find a lot of my own traits reprehensible, and I’m not sure if we’d get along. I simply want to know if there IS someone out there like that. OKCupid sorta tries a bit to match people up with similar personalities, but it doesn’t really feel like the same sort of thing to me.
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amen
If this fictional person shared exactly the same interests and talents it should be only a matter of time before you encounter them, knowingly or not.
If you loosened the requirements on that….I can think of a few people who were very similar, but that was years ago and I haven’t been in contact with them. But in most respects I think you and those others are pretty much interchangeable. And you would probably have no trouble getting along.
Here are your bullet points with my comments:
# Someone who has crossed, or hasn’t crossed, the same boundaries I have, or haven’t. Substance-wise, relationship-wise, emotion-wise.
(Not quite sure about this one)
# Tied to the first point, someone who is neutral in many respects. I don’t become super depressed, nor do I become super happy.
(Definitely)
# Someone who takes life easily. Someone who isn’t swayed by basically any events – simply goes through them.
(Definitely)
# Someone who’s been through the same family situation as I have. Constant moving, and large relationship differences between parents.
(Not the moving so much, but the other half)
# Someone who’s interested in the same things I am. Internet, hardware, BEMANI, writing, languages, my kinds of music, the whole shebang. You know, my LJ interests basically.
(I’m not much of a composer, and I’ve never played IIDX, but the rest of them)
# Someone who has some of the same talents as I do. Musically, artistically. They’d have the same viewpoint about their talents as I do.
(Dunno. Probably not)
# Someone who strives to be social, although tends to be introverted. It’s not that they can’t thrive in a social environment, it’s that they often choose not to.
(Yup)
# Someone who has the same thoughts as I do. Someone who’d find it interesting to meet someone like them. Someone existential, atheist, due to the same reasons I am.
(I guess I’d have to see)
Yeah…
Maybe.